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Remembering John Alexander

14 Dec 2007 08:15 pm

I don't usually use this blog to write about matters personal to me, but the platform sometimes permits an indulgence.

Yesterday, John Alexander, a friend from my days at ABC News, died suddenly while on assignment in China. His short career included productive stints at ABC, at NPR, and now, at the Discovery Channel, where he helped produce documentaries for Ted Koppel.

John was 26.

His sense of humor ranged from the bawdy (he had an unbelievably profane LBJ impersonation) to the brilliant, and he could turn it at a switch. He was vivacious, in the best way a heterosexual male can be vicacious; an intense charmer, a young man of both deep faith and persistent skepticism, open-minded and a bull when we was arguing a cause he thought just.

He loved to travel and talk about his travel; he also really loved to work. He loved the medium of broadcasting and would have been, had he been born a few decades earlier, one of Murrow's boys, for sure. He was also just a really, really nice guy.

Those of us lucky enough to enter network television out of college always felt out of place. We were, in some sense, imposters, just mirroring what we saw and learning as we went along. John quickly mastered the intricacies of television and so quickly became an integral part of the Nightline culture that you would have thought he was a lifelong member. He was mentored by Tom Bettag, the greatest television producer in the medium's history, and though he was a few years younger than I was, John was a mentor of sorts to me.

I remember once learning of some internal Nightline gossip and went to John to see if it were true. Kindly, he told me he could not say, even knowing that I wouldn't tell a soul. He did not like to violate people's confidences. It is very rare to find someone so young with such a well-developed sense of integrity.

I did not watch Nightline last night, where John's death was announced. I learned of the news this afternoon from someone John met only once; a casual contact. But John was just that memorable.

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Comments (14)

I hope you can find out the cause of his death.
i see this picture and see someone so full of life and it is so sad that someone so young just died so sudden.
my thoughts are with you and I am sorry you lost a friend.

Sad news, Marc. You have remembered him well.

Would have loved to see that LBJ impersonation.

RIP, John.

Sorry you lost a friend.

I met John in college and he had been a dear friend of mine ever since. I will miss him and my heart goes out to others who care about him deeply.

Same age notwithstanding, John is someone that I looked up to. His sense of humor, intellect and ambition were inspiring; I fully expected to see him in the news one day and I'm very very sad that this is the way it had to happen.

God plucks the best.
RIP JOHN

John contacted me in March of 04 when my father died for the 'In Memorium' piece on 'This Week'. He was experienced beyond his age. He helped put together a very moving clip. I have watched the segment almost everyweek since. This morning I was heart broken to see he was part of the segment. I remember telling him after the show I wanted him to go far because I could say I knew him. Well I can see years don't always tell the story. He did go far from all I have read. He touched a lot of people. Well done John, well done.

John was the same age as and a high school classmate of my son Mike. His family lived across the street fom my house when he was a child. I learned of his death at he same time I learned of his early success in the media. My heart goes out to his parents who must feel the loss of such a son most acutely.

It has been a few years since I have talked to John but we had some amazing adventures together when we were living in Switzerland. He was seriously one of the funniest people I have ever met, not to mention one of the kindest. I appreciate everyone who has shared their memories and thoughts of him because it helps me mourn his loss and to know that it is something we all share whether I know any of you or not.

You touched the world john and you will not be forgotten

How sad for us that we only learned of this remarkable young man because we had tivo'd Nightline....tonight as we watched the episode end, we saw the picture of a young man who caught our attention simply because of the year of his birth, 1981...the year of the birth of our oldest child created some immediate connection and we needed to know more, to know him personally.

We did the only thing that we knew to do and Googled "John Alexander". John has apparently touched the lives of many and we truly hope that his parents can find some small comfort in the knowledge that there are many other parents like us who send our support and comfort to them during this extremely difficult time of their lives.

It seems so trivial - but we truly want to send our heartfelt sympathies to John's family and friends. We hope that you will soon know why his wonderful young life had to end far too early and that you will find some comfort in the success of his very young but short life. It is so very ironic that he accomplished and touched more lives in his very short 26 years on this earth than most could expect to accomplish in what we would typically call a lifetime.

Bless you all for having him, even if for a very short while.

I'm still crying over Johnny. My daughter dated him for almost two years a few years ago and our entire family adored him. For the past several months he has been on my mind for some reason. I missed seeing him. I loved his big hugs! All of us are trying to program this unacceptable information. I will truly miss him. His last words to me were, "I love you Mrs. Whittaker". At least I'll always have that. My deepest sympathy goes out to his parents and brother. Johnny will ALWAYS be in our hearts!

John and I went to rival high schools but had many mutual friends. John was a very nice, kind, and thoughtful person...He treated everyone with respect. There were a few times that I was hard on John, but he was always forgiving and gracious. John worked tirelessly to bring the news to the American people. He used his God-given talents to help tell stories that weren't being told all around the globe. I haven't seen John in years, but all of us that knew him will miss his positive and optimistic outlook. My prayers are with the Alexander family during this extremely difficult time.

John 14:27- "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."

I knew John from college. He was so cool, you almost couldn't believe he was the real deal but he was and you knew it after 5 minutes. I'm sick about hearing of his passing. He will be missed. Blessings to his family and friends.

May the Almighty bless the Alexander family with peace, may He inject our lives with the enthusiasm that John had.